Self Portrait as Lilith

by K Lenore Siner

Sometimes painting is excruciatingly intimate. Through the process of creating I am often forced to engage with aspects of myself that I would rather look away from. More than that, the final product is at times something that feels so personally connected that sharing it publicly can feel like I am sharing some of the most fragile or unbearable parts of myself with anyone who has eyes.

My last painting “Self Portrait as Lilith” is an acute example of this. Here I am, naked, bony, wild, legs spread. It feels horrific and shameful on some levels. What is my aim in painting something like this? Why not paint her with someone else’s face and do away with the personal connection?

I understand reality through the Tantric lens of macrocosm/microcosm — what exists in the universe exists in me. Through depicting myself as deity/daemon/archetype I grab hold of a strong thread of understanding that harnesses a certain power in the painting. I take something that is supposedly external and connect to how it exists internally. It is one thing to meditate on an entity/energy. It is another to find that it has your face and to connect to how it lives in and embodies you. It creates a current that I can feed into my work.

The process never stays on the canvas, either. In my weeks of painting myself of Lilith I got to engage in many experiences that taught me about what she is. Historically Lilith is a curious one, as she is depicted as a demon, a class of demons, the first woman, a divine entity that was born spontaneously out of the void and a sort of conjoined twin with Adam depending on what source you consult. Whoa, talk about a spectrum of appearances!

I understand
reality through the Tantric lens of macrocosm and microcosm — what exists in the universe exists in me.

How this played out in my weeks communing with her was that I encountered many misunderstandings and questions as to my intent, both with myself and from others. Who am I really? How do I deal with myself as I fluctuate between my most loving expressions and my most despicable? Like Lilith, I had to question if I was woman or monster, dangerous or pure. And all of the questions and emotion get bound up in the paint, held there to reflect on.

This is her story lived through my life. And in the final product of the painting no questions have been answered — which seems to be Lilith’s teaching. Who do you think she is? Just who do you think you are? How you view yourself or the creature in the painting may depend on which story you choose. Or can both sides of the story be true? Or is it neither? It is in these questions (or perhaps in the inability to come to a final answer) that we get to meet her.

In this, the feeling of shame, vulnerability and fear of judgement that I feel in sharing this painting are perhaps part of her story as well. Are we feeling a bit misunderstood? Unsure if we will be worshiped or demonized by those around us? The line blurs between my personal process and the lived understanding of Lilith’s energy. And always the end goal of the painting is to get that energy and message into the image in order to offer you your own piece of understanding and interaction with her. Then the work might go beyond what is personally transformative to me and be something that may be collectively transformative.

Wax and oil paint on wood panel . 36″ x 24″ . 2014

Art Gallery, Volume 2 Issue 9